keepin’ it real

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Sometimes life looks like this. It’s hard. You can’t fix it like you want to. You just have to live it. I decided to try this new thing and post in the trenches. I don’t have an explanation or a solid plan to give you. It’s just me in my days of hard. Will it get better? Hopefully. Am I sad? Yes. Am I giving each hour my best? Yes. Am I stable? No. But I’m still living and I’ll keep going. And there will be more moments like this (mixed with ones where I dance around my kitchen).


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